I am also collecting Emergency Room (ER) stories from people who have Gastroparesis (and/or any other invisible, chronic illness) because I want people to be aware of how we are treated when we go to the Emergency Room. 

I feel like these stories will bring more awareness to what we go through as people who are battling chronic, invisible illnesses. I feel like the way we are treated is unfair and not right. 

Doctors took an oath to help others and so what if the people coming in are drug addicts? Drug addicts can't have medical emergencies? They shouldn't judge but help instead of dismissing us. If you would like to share your ER story/stories, please email them to me: emilysstomach@gmail.com.

One of my friends went to the Emergency Room last week, they dismissed her as a drug addict, and so she went home and committed suicide because she was tired of the medical system failing her. 

These are why your stories are so important - "Stories of Hope" or your "Emergency Room Stories." You may just save a life and you might not know it. 

This "drug seeking" stigma has got to stop.

My neighbor is a nurse at an Emergency Room, by where I live. She told me that Gastroparesis was not real, and the people who came into the ER where she worked who claimed had Gastroparesis, only wanted pain medicine. I wanted to tell her that it would have been a lot easier for me to buy drugs off of the street than to spend thousands at an Emergency Room, and then being poked and prodded one hundred times! Additionally, when you are THAT sick to go to the Emergency Room, you should NOT have to fight for basic healthcare. 

I have three different tests that prove I have Gastroparesis, and I cannot make those results up. I am not sure if doctors or nurses do continuing education, but more and more people are being diagnosed with Gastroparesis and other invisible illnesses.

The Hippocratic Oath states,

"I swear to fulfill, to the best of my ability and judgment, this covenant:

I will respect the hard-won scientific gains of those physicians in whose steps I walk, and gladly share such knowledge as is mine with those who are to follow.

I will apply, for the benefit of the sick, all measures [that] are required, avoiding those twin traps of overtreatment and therapeutic nihilism.

I will remember that there is art to medicine as well as science, and that warmth, sympathy, and understanding may outweigh the surgeon's knife or the chemist's drug.

I will not be ashamed to say 'I know not,' nor will I fail to call in my colleagues when the skills of another are needed for a patient's recovery.

I will respect the privacy of my patients, for their problems are not disclosed to me that the world may know. Most especially must I tread with care in matters of life and death. If it is given me to save a life, all thanks. But it may also be within my power to take a life; this awesome responsibility must be faced with great humbleness and awareness of my own frailty. Above all, I must not play at God.

I will remember that I do not treat a fever chart, a cancerous growth, but a sick human being, whose illness may affect the person's family and economic stability. My responsibility includes these related problems, if I am to care adequately for the sick.

I will prevent disease whenever I can, for prevention is preferable to cure.

I will remember that I remain a member of society, with special obligations to all my fellow human beings, those sound of mind and body as well as the infirm.

If I do not violate this oath, may I enjoy life and art, respected while I live and remembered with affection thereafter. May I always act so as to preserve the finest traditions of my calling and may I long experience the joy of healing those who seek my help."

I do not see anything in there about judging patients and refusing to help them. What is I was a full blown medical addict? What if I was having an honest emergency and needed help? Would I have been judged and sent home to die?

If you would like more information about what is listed here, or if you want to share my blog entry with what is listed here as well, my blog address is: www.emilysstomach.com.

One of my GP friends had that happen (she was not a drug addict though) to her. She went to the Emergency Room where they treated her like a "drug seeker." She was having problems breathing I think, and so the doctor gave her a breathing treatment and sent her on her way. She died at home later that night because her lungs filled up with fluid. The doctor didn't do an x-ray, keep her overnight or anything that could have saved her life. I still cry.

Okay first thanks to all of you who have submitted your ER stories! I am collecting them to put in my blog. I am hoping that with all of the different medical professionals who read my blog, that it might make a difference in the way that they perceive chronically ill patients, especially in the Emergency Room. I have already made a blog article with the stories I have already received:


Now for my next request. I have made these requests since 2013, and would like to write an article containing them all. I am collecting progressional timelines. I need a timeline from you with a little bit before you were diagnosed, during when you were diagnosed, and after you were diagnosed. Additionally, I know this is not scientifically accurate since it goes by your memory, but I am hoping that when I write an article about it, it will catch the attention of a medical professional who will be inspired to do a study like this. I am trying to find things that all of us have in common, up to and during being diagnosed with Gastroparesis. You can use your first name and last initial or I can make up a name for you (just let me know), but listing your state would be amazing if you feel comfortable with that. I also need contact information from you (in case I have any questions or in case a medical professional does want your information for further study) but it will be between us. Here is the request and what I would need:


You can email it to me at: emilysstomach@gmail.com

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